I may be losing it (debatable), but I swear every time I get to have a girls night, at least one of my 2 children gets sick!
As you may have already discovered from previous posts, I don’t get out much.
We don’t have family close by to watch our babies if we go out and we don’t have much help in the evenings so my husband and I never get date nights (we’ve had 3 in 3 years, literally) which means it’s either one of us or the other who gets to go out (it’s always him).
On the very rare occasion that I get to have a girls night, my babies get sick!
It’s like an intentionally postponed illness to rear it’s ugly head only when Mommy is on her 2nd glass of a mediocre red blend.
Why is this happening??
I get home with the slightest glimpse of a happy buzz, only to be wakened in the night by a fever bearing baby.
They can sense my freedom and they’re not having it.
It’s like stepping outside into a whole new world where shoppers congregate at Target after dinner and drinks to try on the latest romper and buy it only because this is the only time they’re confidence is boosted.
You make new friends with other moms in the dressing room and tell each other “that looks great!” (And you mean it! But it does not!)
The next day you remember your conversation and that hideous floral jumper and you want to find that woman and tell her to return the jumper but we should be friends!
My children don’t like this, they can sense that I’m gone, (even though they’re asleep) and decide to manifest a virus just to spite me.
Then you feel guilty for leaving in the first place and also realize you’re never going to get to go out ever again and you resent your husband who gets to play corn hole on Thursday nights because even though you hate corn hole, you can appreciate an early evening of freedom and a little buzz.
Your future trips to Target will be accompanied by your babies and there will be no half-drunken fashion shows with strangers or random bubble bath purchases. Baby wipes and gold fish are all you’re going to get.
At least they have a wine isle.